We all have opinions about most everyday things in life. What differentiates us from people like Charlie Munger and Steve Jobs is the ability to hold two opposing ideas at the same time.
“The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in mind at the same time and still retain the ability to function.” — F. Scott Fitzgerald
Lately, I have noticed myself rejecting opposing ideas. Be it with my friends talking about parenting or while reading why my investment may fail.
The other day I was talking to my friend about schooling. I told him homeschooling is the best and why everyone should homeschool their children. My friend brought up a couple of points on why homeschooling is not for everyone. The logistics and the time it takes to homeschool an elementary student are enormous. And not every kid has the temperament and discipline to read and write on their own. Not everyone has the time nor are they willing to go through that process.
My mind couldn’t accept that. My mind kept flashing my idea of homeschooling and rejected his opposing ideas even before considering those. It took a while for my stupid mind to realize what works for me may not work for others.
When we attach ourselves to a belief, we feed them, care for them, and nurture them with supporting ideas. The longer we hold on to a belief or an idea, the harder it will be to accept the opposing ideas and to change our mind.
“You need all kinds of influences, including negative ones, to challenge what you believe in.” — Bill Murray
As Bill said, we need all kinds of influence and we should challenge our beliefs and ideas. We should be ready to change our perspective when our understanding changes instead of hanging on to the old ideas. Be ready to change your mind when the data changes.